Avyaansh,
I am writing this down for you while I still can — because some truths a father needs to set in his own hand, so they are never lost.
Your grandfather is still with us as I write this. If God is kind, he will still be here when you are old enough to read this; and if he is, go and sit beside him and ask him to tell you this story in his own voice, because nothing I write will ever match it. But in case the years reach him first, let me write it down myself.
One day, I hope, you will inherit some of what this family has built, and I do not want you to believe it began with me. It did not. It began with a bicycle and a bundle of cloth.
The man on the cycle
Your great-grandfather was a hawker. He strapped clothes to a cycle and rode from door to door, village to village, selling whatever he could. On weekends he rolled beedis to earn a little more. There was no proper schooling. There was no proper food. There was only survival — the hard, daily kind that most people in this country have lived and most history books forget.
That is our zero, Avyaansh. Remember it. Not as shame — as foundation. Everything our family holds today was built upward from a man on a bicycle who refused to stop pedalling.
The boy with fifty rupees
Your grandfather, Shri Lakshmi Prasad, was sent to a government school that let him sit in class without paying fees. And do you know what he did with that free seat? He came near the top. A poor man's son, no tuition, no advantage in the world — and still, near the top.
After his twelfth class, one of his teachers guided him to go to Tatanagar — to Jamshedpur, where the Tata factories were. He was barely seventeen. He arranged fifty rupees. Fifty. He did not know how he would eat, or where he would sleep, or what would become of him. He only knew that staying back was not a life. So he boarded the train into a city he had never seen.
I believe God carried him on that train, because he survived. He joined Telco — what you will know as Tata Motors — as an apprentice, working in shifts. His first salary was one hundred and fifty rupees.
It did not cover everything. But you must understand what that number meant to him — not the rupees, the feeling. The feeling of a man who has just learned he can stand on his own feet in this world. I can survive. Avyaansh, if I could hand you one feeling for your whole life, it would be that one. It is worth more than any balance in any account.
He raised six children on that path. And somewhere inside those years — full shifts at the factory, six children at home — he enrolled in a part-time engineering course and cleared it. AMIE. A factory apprentice made himself an engineer at night.
I was one of those six children. And here is something I need you to hear plainly: I never once felt that anything was missing. I was never jealous of another boy, never felt poor, never felt less. I was content. That contentment, far more than any money, is what your grandfather gave me — and it is the first thing I am trying to hand to you.
What your grandfather knew about money
Your grandfather had one rule, and he said it so often that it is carved into me. I will give it to you the way he gave it to me:
Never spend more than you earn. Jitni chaadar ho, utne hi pair failao — stretch your legs only as far as your bedsheet reaches.
Live within your means. It sounds like a small thing. It is the entire foundation. Every wealthy family that collapses, collapses because it forgot this one line.
He kept his money in fixed deposits, in the PPF, in the NSC. And here I want to teach you something, because it would be easy to look back and call him too cautious. He was not. He was exactly right for his time.
In his era, a bank fixed deposit paid ten, twelve, sometimes thirteen percent. The Public Provident Fund paid a flat twelve percent — and it was completely tax-free — from 1986 all the way to the year 2000. Sit with that number. Twelve percent, guaranteed, tax-free, with no risk at all. To beat that with shares, you would have needed to earn seventeen or eighteen percent before tax, every single year, carrying all of the risk yourself. Why would a sensible man with six children gamble on that? He would not. In his time, the fixed deposit was not the timid choice. It was the intelligent one.
Today that same PPF pays around seven percent, and a fixed deposit barely keeps up with the rising prices of everything you buy. The very instrument that built your grandfather's security would slowly bleed mine.
So here is the most important lesson in this letter: do not inherit the instrument. Inherit the thinking. Your grandfather did not love fixed deposits. He did what was within his capacity and his understanding — and in his time, that was an FD. In mine, it is equity. In yours, it may be something neither of us has heard of yet. Find the best risk-adjusted return your own era offers, and never let anyone tell you the right answer is fixed forever.
The one scar
Your grandfather did step into the stock market once. He leaned on a broker for advice. But that broker earned his living from commissions — from your grandfather buying and selling — not from your grandfather growing richer. The advice was poor. He lost a lakh or two of his capital, and then he quietly closed that door and never opened it again.
I have turned that loss over in my mind my whole life, and here is what I have concluded: it was not the stock market that failed him. It was trusting his money to a man who was paid for activity, not for outcome. Their interests were never the same, and a man cannot serve you well when winning for you costs him his income.
That single lesson is why I taught myself. Why I read, and study, and make my own decisions, and answer for my own mistakes. Avyaansh — never hand your judgment to someone whose income depends on your activity. Not with money, not with your body, not with your life. Learn enough to decide for yourself.
My game
I play the equity game now. But I want you to know why, because the why matters far more than the what.
It is not because I need more. God has given me enough money, and enough skill, that I know — the way my father knew it on that factory floor — that I can survive. I am not chasing money because I want more of it. I am in this for the joy of the game itself. The end goal does not matter, my son. The journey matters. To sit with a business, to understand it, to be right or be wrong and to learn either way — that is the pleasure. That is the whole point.
And hear this clearly, because it is where many fathers fail their sons: I am not telling you to do what I do. I am not saying equity is the only way, or even that it is your way. There are countless ways to build wealth, just as there are countless ways to earn a living. Your grandfather's way was the fixed deposit. Mine is equity. Yours will be your own. Understand your own temperament — what lets you sleep at night, what genuinely interests you, what you can stay patient with for years — and choose your path from there. A strategy that fights your nature will lose, however good it looks on paper.
What you are actually inheriting
So count what has happened across three lives, Avyaansh.
Your great-grandfather started at zero — a cycle and a fight to survive. Your grandfather started with fifty rupees and a train ticket into the dark. I started with a full stomach, an education, and a settled mind. And you begin with all of it — capital, knowledge, and a father who has walked some distance ahead and turned around to write the road down for you.
Each generation lowered the floor the next one stands on. That is the real family business. Not cloth, not engineering, not shares — the quiet, stubborn work of making sure your child begins higher than you did. The money compounds, yes. But the lifting-up compounds faster, and it matters more.
When your turn comes, do the same for your own. That is how you repay me — not backward, to me, but forward, to them.
Live within your bedsheet. Keep enough skill in your hands that you never fear for your survival. Never give your judgment away to someone who is paid to take it. Match your money to your times and to your nature. And whatever your account says — stay content. I had almost nothing as a boy and I lacked for nothing. I want that peace for you far more than I want you rich.
If you are blessed to meet your grandfather, touch his feet for me.
— Your Dad
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